Friday, July 2, 2010

Happy kids want? - Teach them to take their time!

I just read an amazing article. It gives us a key to happiness. And we all want our children to be happy! What makes people happy? What leads people to say they were satisfied with their life? And 'money? - NO! It's time. After the time leads to happiness.

We have all heard that more money does not make us happy. Helps low income, but just do not do middle class, not money much, much happier. When the Beatles sang many years ago, money can not buyLove. And money can not buy happiness either. Even Henry Ford said he was happier if it were a mechanical work. All her money will not buy much happiness.

So what make people happy, if not called it money well-being, as researchers are there? What makes people happy is the prosperity of time. People who have time to be happy. People who like to control their time. If you are not in a hurry and do not feel that their lives are happy frenzy. This is what weteach our children.

This is probably not news to many people. We already knew that the rich are not much happier than the middle class. Of course, if you can not buy your basic needs as food, clothing or live in a place, will be unhappy. But once you meet your basic needs, you are just as likely to be happy, like Donald Trump or Bill Gates. And if you have enough money to be happy, have the time, an even bigger impact on your happiness.

We all want our children to behappy, so the first thing we must do is ensure they get enough of an education to a dignified life. This is fairly easy and most of us can check that off our list. But all this does is make them "ticket" eligible for the happiness of life. There is little to save. How can we ensure that our children are happy?

We must teach our children to value their time and make good use of time. How can we do? We can begin with an appreciation of our time. When was the last timeThey explained that you are happy to spend time with what you want. If you are on holiday they say - so feel your children: "I'm so happy that I have time with my family"? What for dinner? Sunday morning? If you listen to your children that you appreciate your time, they also enjoy their time.

What is hectic and rushed with emotion? The best way to avoid this is to have smooth transitions between activities. Do you have smooth transitions? Have you finishedYour breakfast, then calmly kiss your children, whistling as you leave the house every morning? Or are your breakfast dishes in the sink, crying because you can not find the car keys and travel to the dogs because you are late for work? It 'very important to smooth transitions. This is why many kindergarten teachers will sing while the children are cleaning the form of a 'business and the way to another. At the end of a gradual and peaceful transition. This is allimportant to teach your children.

Part of the reason that people have more time, are unhappy because they have more "and when they are called, something the researchers awareness. Mindfulness of respect for life is what you. For example, how often you drive somewhere and have no memory of how you got there? How often do you eat something and you are not aware that you eat? How often are distracted and not paying attention?

So this gives us evento find another way to happiness and help our children to be happy. Show them to manage their time well and to help them, not frantic. And we must teach our children "aware" of being present in the moment. And that is the subject of another article will be!

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